Diddy Ex Kim Porter Died at 47 Years Later Her Father and Children Have Broken Silence on Their Relationship
Kim Porter's passing in 2018 impacted those closest to her profoundly. Now, years later, her family is offering rare glimpses into her life, sharing their deeply personal reflections. Their insights bring new understanding to the woman behind the public persona.
Kim Porter wasn't just known for her connection to Diddy. As a model, actress, and devoted mother, she made a lasting impression on her family and the entertainment world. Her relationship with Diddy, though often rocky, was a big part of her life.
Kim Porter attends the opening night for "The Rock N Roll Of Hip Hop" on June 26, 2009 | Source: Getty Images
Since her passing, the public has heard much from Diddy, but Kim's family has largely remained silent. Recently, they've shared their perspective, addressing rumors and sharing heartfelt tributes to her memory.
im's Life and Her Relationship with Diddy
Kim Porter and Sean "Diddy" Combs first met in the 1990s and developed a romantic relationship. Over the course of more than a decade, their romance was marked by periods of closeness and separation.
Sean Combs and Kim Porter pose on December 31, 1994 | Source: Getty Images
They shared three children: Christian, born in 1998, and twin daughters, D'Lila and Jessie, born in 2006. In addition, Diddy helped raise Kim's son Quincy from a previous relationship, considering him his own.
Their relationship ended in 2007, shortly after the birth of the twins. Following their breakup, Kim moved to Los Angeles with her children, leaving behind the home she had shared with Diddy.
Kim Porter and Sean "Diddy" Combs with their twin daughters D'Lila and Jessie on September 2, 2007 | Source: Getty Images
Kim issued a public statement, explaining her decision, "In ending this relationship, I made a decision that was in the best interest of myself, Sean, and our family."
The breakup was reportedly caused by Diddy's infidelity. Around the time Kim was pregnant with their twins, she discovered that Diddy had fathered another child with another woman.
Years later in 2015, Diddy reflected on his relationships in an interview on "The Breakfast Club." He candidly admitted that being with him wasn't always easy, acknowledging moments of infidelity that created challenges for his partners.
"But then there's 75 percent of 'I'ma make you the happiest woman in the whole wide world. I'ma be there to support your dreams, hold you, listen to you, be your best friend. And I promise you'll smile the most.' Which deal would you choose?" he said.
This admission provides a glimpse into the dynamics that may have influenced his relationship with Kim, offering context for the ups and downs they experienced together.
But even after the breakup, Kim and Diddy remained committed to co-parenting. Kim herself noted that although they were no longer together romantically, they were friends and maintained daily communication, especially regarding their children.
Kim's Sudden Death and Its Aftermath
They remained close until Kim's death on November 15, 2018, when she was found dead in her Los Angeles home. She had been battling flu-like symptoms for several days, and her death was later attributed to pneumonia.
Kim, just 47 years old at the time, had reportedly gone to bed early the night before because she wasn't feeling well, but when family members tried to wake her the next morning, she was unresponsive. Paramedics were called to the scene, where she was pronounced dead.
Kim Porter is seen in Los Angeles on June 19, 2018 | Source: Getty Images
The news of her sudden passing left many heartbroken. Diddy, with whom she had shared much of her life and raised four children, released a brief statement.
"Sadly, I can confirm the passing of Kim Porter," Diddy's rep stated. "I ask that you give the families privacy at this time." Reports indicated that Kim had been under treatment for her illness with saline and vitamins, but no illegal drugs were found in her system.
Authorities even looked into a recent trip she had taken to Africa, speculating if she could have contracted an illness during her travels, but no conclusive evidence pointed to this.
The tragedy of Kim's death affected her children the most. At the time of her passing, her son Christian was 20 years old, and her twin daughters, D'Lila and Jessie, were just 11.Her eldest son Quincy, whom she shared with singer Al B. Sure!, was 27. In the immediate aftermath, Diddy stepped in to care for their children, making it clear that his focus was on being there for his family.
Kim's Father Speaks About Her Relationship with Diddy
Years after her death, Kim's father, Jake Porter, opened up about his thoughts on her relationship with Diddy. His reflections reveal a side of their relationship that was less visible to the public.
Kim Porter and Diddy attend a photo exhibition on June 26, 2009 | Source: Getty Images
In the conversation, Jake shared his reaction to a disturbing video of Diddy allegedly abusing one of his ex-partners, Cassie Ventura. The footage, which resurfaced years after Kim's death, showed Diddy physically assaulting Cassie.The video deeply affected Jake, causing him to wonder what his daughter might have experienced during her relationship with the music mogul. Although Jake emphasized that he had never witnessed Diddy physically abusing Kim, the video left him uneasy.
The video deeply affected Jake, causing him to wonder what his daughter might have experienced during her relationship with the music mogul. Although Jake emphasized that he had never witnessed Diddy physically abusing Kim, the video left him uneasy.
"You can say I was disgusted with the video, and I wouldn't treat my enemy like that," Jake stated. He added, "It made me wonder. I didn't know he could stoop that low."
Jake recalled living near his daughter during different periods of her relationship with Diddy. Though he had never seen violence firsthand, the video of Cassie gave him a "different outlook" on Diddy's character.Reflecting on Kim's bond with Diddy, Jake mentioned that although the two loved each other, he believed Diddy's love might have been different from Kim's. "They both loved each other. Kim's love was legitimate. Puffy's love, I don't know what he calls love… I really don't think he has any idea what love is," Jake said.
Jake's focus now is on the well-being of his grandchildren. "My concern is the children," he stated, emphasizing the importance of their happiness and stability after the loss of their mother.
Kim's Children Break Their Silence
Nearly six years after their mother's untimely passing, Kim's four children have also spoken out. Their statement comes as rumors and misinformation surrounding their mother's death and her relationship with Diddy continue to circulate in the public sphere.
In a statement shared on Quincy's Instagram page, they addressed the pain and frustration that they felt regarding the constant speculation.
"We have seen so many hurtful and false rumors circulating about our parents, Kim Porter and Sean Combs' relationship, as well as about our mom's tragic passing, that we feel the need to speak out," it read.
One of the rumors that had gained traction in the years following Kim's death was the existence of a supposed memoir she had written, which claimed to offer insights into her relationship with Diddy.
"Claims that our mom wrote a book are simply untrue. She did not. And anyone claiming to have a manuscript is misrepresenting themselves," they asserted.
They expressed their dismay over how their mother's legacy was being exploited, with people capitalizing on their tragedy by spreading false information. In their statement, Kim's children also made it clear that the cause of her death had already been determined—there was no foul play involved.
"Grief is a lifelong process," wrote the siblings, "and we ask that everyone respect our request for peace as we continue to cope with her loss every day."
New Revelations and Allegations in 2024
In 2024, shocking new allegations emerged involving Combs, bringing Kim's name back into the spotlight. These revelations were part of a larger lawsuit filed by several women accusing Diddy of sexual assault and abuse.
One woman named April Lampros made claims that further complicated the public perception of Diddy's relationship with Kim. According to Lampros, she had terrifying encounters with Diddy in the 1990s, one of which allegedly involved Kim.
Lampros claimed that in 1996, Diddy forced her and Kim to take ecstasy and engage in sexual acts. In her lawsuit, she alleged that she resisted but felt powerless when Diddy reminded her that he could ruin her career.
She further claimed that after coercing her and Kim into sexual activity, Diddy physically assaulted her. Lampros also stated that she faced retaliation from both Diddy and Kim, resulting in her losing her job.
According to former acquaintances like rapper Mark Curry, there were times when Diddy's behavior made things difficult for Kim. Curry suggested that the relationship, while full of love, had toxic elements that were hidden from the public eye.
Kim Porter and Sean "Diddy" Combs attend Kim's birthday party on December 15, 2003 | Source: Getty Images
A key source of tension between the couple was Diddy's alleged jealousy. Kim herself alluded to Diddy's controlling nature during an interview. She revealed how difficult it was to truly distance herself from him, even after their breakup.
She shared that Diddy would call her constantly — sometimes "50, 60 times a day" — making it hard for her to establish her individuality. "It was like my life was not my own.… He was very, very intrusive," Kim admitted.
In 2000 during one of their many breakups, Kim tried to move on with her life, but reports suggest that Diddy had difficulty accepting this. Kim entered into a relationship with music executive Shakir Stewart, which allegedly enraged Diddy.
During a trip to Italy for the wedding of music mogul L.A. Reid, Diddy reportedly lashed out at Shakir in a fit of jealousy. According to Shakir's mom and close friends, Diddy went to Shakir's room after the ceremony and broke a chair over his head, leaving him bleeding on the hotel floor.
Shakir's mother recalled how he had to receive stitches and how Diddy allegedly threatened Shakir, "I'm going to kill you." This violent outburst reportedly left Shakir's loved ones deeply concerned for his safety and even prompted his mother to urge him to leave the music industry.
Despite these challenges, both Kim and Diddy spoke publicly about their deep connection. Diddy frequently praised the mothers of his children, including Kim, for their roles in raising their kids.
Preserving Kim Porter's Legacy
As new revelations continue to emerge about Diddy and his past relationships, Kim's story remains central to the conversation. Recently, Kim's ex-partner and father of her eldest son Quincy added his voice to the growing list of those questioning the circumstances surrounding her death.
In a passionate social media post, Al B. Sure! expressed his long-standing concerns about foul play and called for further investigation into Kim's passing. He mentioned that for over a decade, he had been raising alarms about threats to Kim's safety and had been medically silenced.
All the accounts from Kim's family and former acquaintances have also shed light on the more hidden aspects of her life, particularly her relationship with Diddy. Diddy's alleged jealousy, infidelity, and emotional control were challenges that Kim faced quietly, even as she maintained a public image of strength and grace.
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